Feb. 21, 2025
Transformative Adventures in Manifestation and Growth
Imagine living your dream life by the beach, filled with peace and unexpected opportunities. Eileen Head joins us once again on Keep Hope Alive to share her captivating journey of manifesting a serene life in Mazatlan, Mexico. Through her story, we explore the art of dreaming big and the power of maintaining a positive mindset. Whether it's relocating, career changes, or nurturing relationships, Eileen’s experiences inspire us to let go of rigid timelines and embrace the transformative power of a quieter life.
Manifestation is more than just wishful thinking; it's about taking action. We dive into the synergy between putting out positive energy and making proactive choices that lead to personal growth and fulfillment. Through engaging conversations and personal anecdotes, we highlight the significance of setting intentions, recognizing opportunities, and overcoming victim mentality. As relationships thrive on communication and mutual appreciation, we reflect on how nurturing these elements is vital for personal and relational growth.
In our journey towards self-awareness and spiritual growth, we touch on the importance of healing past emotional baggage and using tools like the Enneagram for self-improvement. With insights on maintaining boundaries and recognizing red flags in relationships, Eileen and I share how to raise your vibration and overcome past traumas. This episode is a guide to manifesting your dreams, understanding life's lessons, and embracing the adventures that come your way. Join our community at Keep Hope Alive, and let's embark on this inspiring journey together.
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Chapters
00:02 - Manifesting Dreams and Goals
08:40 - Attracting Dreams Through Manifestation
19:01 - Understanding Relationships and Self-Growth
34:34 - Navigating Relationships and Spiritual Growth
43:47 - Connecting With Keep Hope Alive Podcast
Transcript
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Hello and welcome to Keep Hope Alive podcast.
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Today I have the lovely Eileen Head here with us.
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This is a second time around.
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I'm so happy to have you back.
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Yay, number two.
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So we are on season 21 of Keep Hope Alive and we have made it over that hurdle of 200 episodes within a year and a half.
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I'm so excited and I'm so excited to be talking to you again and catching up and seeing how you're doing.
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So, just like before you know what, maybe I should redirect this question a little bit more and just come at you with it, because I asked you this before, and just come at you with it because I asked you this before.
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So, before we get started, what is that thing we have to?
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sign when we go to an event, especially a wedding to let people know we're here.
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I don't know what you mean.
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Okay, so if we were at a wedding ceremony visiting our friends?
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Oh, a guest book.
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Yes, you see, the first time around I made it too easy, but you know what?
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The second time I'm going to be a little bit.
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Let's kind of get the tricking in there.
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So one of our sponsors here is Life on Record, and what they do is they do the vintage rotary phone instead of a guest book so your guests can pick up the phone, leave a message, congratulations on your big day, or you know what we're happy, you guys are getting married.
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Many years of happiness, enjoy life, you know whatever it may be.
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And then they actually take all the messages and we'll burn it on a 12 inch final record or even a keepsake.
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Speaker.
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Their plans do start at $99 and you get the phone number phone number You've got to return the cute little phone, but you get that for one year.
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All right, that's really cool.
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What a cool concept, right it is.
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I think that's brilliant, that would be, and it's a fun factor too, right.
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I like it.
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Yeah, you can use it for anything.
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And I keep thinking, okay, what's the next event and that is going to be like a milestone event, and that is going to be like a milestone and I believe.
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Well, it's no, it will probably be me turning 50 will be first, and then my son turning 16.
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But and then I think my daughter will be in two years, 25.
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So there's different things, just you know, depending on what it is and the event we're going to put together.
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But tell me, how have you been?
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It's been a good year, well as you can see in the background, this is my fourth year in Mazatlan, mexico, living in a condo right above the beach, and that's one of the things that I manifested years ago, so I'm pretty excited.
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That's one of the things I do.
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Teach is manifesting your dreams to live your best life.
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Exactly, exactly, and you know doing that and accomplishing it.
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Oh my gosh, there's so much joy you can see in everything I mean yeah, eventually when I become in my 60s I have that all marked out I do want to get to a beach.
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I want to be where it's a lot warmer.
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Well, you know, this was on a vision board of mine and it was something that you know I put on there years in the future.
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It took a number of years till I semi-retired I'm still coaching for it to just sort of fall into my lap.
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So you need to keep your dreams, you need to keep focused on them and keep working them and not set a timeline.
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You know, this showed up so quickly for me.
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It started with a friend of a.
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I was playing pickleball and my friends were going to Phoenix from Calgary and I thought, gee, I'd like to go somewhere warm or have a vacation, but I'm single and I don't have a lot of money.
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And a friend of a friend called me up and said I have a condo in Puerto Morales, mexico.
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I'll rent it to you for $100 Canadian per person per week for two weeks.
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Who's ever heard of such a thing?
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Right Manifesting, and before that I had manifested my house.
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I manifested many, many things since I've learned the techniques.
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And so then another friend invited me here to Mazatlan and I liked it here and I made it work.
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I figured out, you know, to rent out my house so I could make it financially doable for me.
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You know, I want people to know that if you're staying in the, is this all there is?
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There really can be more.
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It needs you to work a mind shift.
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It needs you to start learning manifesting techniques and to take action on what it is you're yearning for, whether that's a deeper connection in a relationship, attracting a partner, a better career, a move, a job whatever that is, it's possible.
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Yeah, All the above at once for me.
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Yes, yeah, and that's really that is so true because you know I will say manifest.
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I move out of state but to be closer to family, and I listed all the pros and cons and I was like there was like maybe two cons but there was like 12 pros.
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I was just like, okay, and I think a lot of help from making this decision is I visit East Texas and a little bit north, and the quieter it was, the more peace I found in joy, in myself and I was like time doesn't feel as fast because when I come back to the city you got A, B, C, D, E, F, G to do, go, go, go go.
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And I feel like it's being on a football field and having to run down the field with the ball just back and forth, and it's something that I don't wanna do for me.
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With the rest of my life, I want it to be nice and calm and settle, and even with a career path, I want to stay somewhere.
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I don't wanna have the feeling that it's going to be high turnover.
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So it's just those little things I need to manifest on the career right now and definitely take a look at where I'm headed and what would be my goal, and it would be to get my own house.
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So yeah, you know I teach manifesting at a workshop I did.
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A gal wanted her own house and after the workshop she found her ideal house and closed it in two weeks.
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Another gal that I teach.
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I teach manifesting fundamentals.
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I've got a program going on right now and it's a four-week program and I teach people how to manifest and I did this program before one of the gals the testimonials on my website it's it's pretty, a pretty deep web testimonial like she was depressed, thinking even of taking her own life, and started to work the manifesting principles and she found her ideal house.
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She moved out of the city, she found a really lovely man and she started her business of doing her art and she said she just started putting the principles of the mindset, statements, the shifting of the mindset, managing her thoughts and working the dream.
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It's possible, it's more than possible, it's probable if you work the steps right.
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Okay, I'm still coming to your class.
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I got to finish one of my classes.
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I decided to start teaching myself all the new AI props you know for business.
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So when I go into a new job I can say, yes, I had the schooling in this and I know how each program works and let's go at it.
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You know so, but definitely I want to learn from you.
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I really do so while you're doing your program.
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You can still start manifesting statements right and you can still put it out there for the ideal job.
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You don't need to define the job, you just need to.
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I call upon the universe to bring me a career and a job that I will love doing, that I will be passionate about and that I will earn a really great living doing what I love doing.
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You know we can craft some statements specifically for you.
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Yeah, start doing it now.
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You know, see yourself in that life of having the job, of having the career.
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You've already started it.
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You've made a decision to move.
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Yeah, you know that that took a decision and a choice and the opportunity came to you.
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It's seeing the opportunity and working on it, taking the opportunity and when you open yourself up to letting go of outcome and attempting to control everything, put out there what you're yearning for.
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Proclaim your dreams.
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What would my life look like?
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And look, I'm down here.
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This is my fourth year.
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Mazatlan, mexico, living right over a beach.
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Did I think years ago that was possible?
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Not even, but it was on my vision board.
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So my unconscious heard it and it was brought to me.
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I see that's beautiful, I love that.
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So, yeah, my conscious, before I took this last job, I still wanted to move out to Oklahoma, but I never talked about it with my son and as I was working at this job, my son started to be like telling me if I go to college, I wanted to be in Oklahoma.
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And I was like okay.
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And he's like I want to play for OU.
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And I was like okay.
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So like every spring break, fall break, he is out with my dad and their whole family and they just adore my son and he gets to try all these new experiences and I think, bottom line, that's what I've always wanted for him.
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So let me take myself and him and our one dog now up to Oklahoma and I want to give him the best life, even though I'm new grandma.
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My daughter has made the decision to move five hours away from us, so it's just kind of hard and I think it would be best if she did visit.
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She would come up to where we were so a lot more people could see her and the baby and everything too.
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But you see what your son did.
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He was manifesting I want to play for Oklahoma.
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You know he had his vision.
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He's already got it planned.
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He put it out there for that to come about.
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And look, his proclaiming.
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That moved your thought process to where you now made the choice to move.
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Do you see how universal energy works?
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Yes, so many people stay stuck in.
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Is this all there is?
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And they stay in the victim perspective.
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And energy is like a magnet.
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What you think, what you feel, what you expect, is what you attract.
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So if you believe this is all there is.
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This will be all there is If you believe that there's opportunities out there for you.
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If you raise your vibrational level to do that, to attract it to you, it comes to you.
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It's a universal law.
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The reason the secret did not work is you know people made these these.
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You know these dreams of okay, I'm going to make a hundred thousand dollars before the end of the year, not even having a career where that was possible.
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Now, you know, an opportunity might have come to them.
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But if there was malware in the background, if there was disbelief that was actually going to happen, they made the statements and then they just sat back and waited for it to happen.
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That's not the way it happens.
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You need to take action.
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You need to work the dream, you need to raise your vibration, you need to let go of victim thinking and get rid of the trauma and the crap from your life to raise yourself to gratitude, to joy, to happiness, to possibilities, to all sorts of things.
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And that's why my life is turned around.
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You know people will say, oh, you're so lucky you lead such a great life.
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No, I was in a marriage for 35 years, staying in the.
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Is this all there is?
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Should I stay or should I go In the fear, in the dysfunction between the two of us?
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He was a great man.
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He worked a lot, but we were not emotionally connected and that was so painful for me, took me a long time, but when I realized that I was living the life of a victim, I started to do self-development courses like self-growth.
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Taking the Enneagram personality was life-changing for me because it showed me all the great things about myself, the foundation of my self-confidence and the challenges that I had with myself and with other people and the obstacles and the patterns that were sabotaging me.
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So as I grew with that, I created a life that shifted.
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We need to take action.
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So many women come.
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I see so many women, especially 50 plus, who are low grade depression.
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Is this all there is, if my husband will only do this and they stay stuck and then when I coach them and they shift and I give them, you know scripting to talk to their partner and engage them and and appreciate them, and I've seen relationships absolutely turn around, save marriages of 25 years that have broken up.
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But it's all based on your own decision to do your own self-growth and to learn to manifest and raise your vibration.
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I agreed, agreed a hundred percent on that, and that's wonderful that marriages are being saved, because it is about communication.
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Don't shut down Even marriages, even dating again.
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If you don't communicate with each other like you did before meeting each other, there is an issue and a problem.
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So you can't walk into any new relationship without that and having that.
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You know, it's just.
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I always preach it is so, so, so important and I don't know why so many people will just fail at that aspect and I kind of like say is it the dating apps that are put out there?
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The grass is greener on the other side.
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Are they still looking for a new person to go on a date with?
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Because that's what technology has offered to a lot of people?
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The dating apps are challenging for sure.
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Here's what I've learned.
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I coach singles as well, and it's really important not to personalize Whatever happens.
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That person is not ready for you, that person does not see you and value you.
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So if they're not engaging with you after a while next, like there's look for the next person it's really important to manage your own talk about vibrational energy.
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Right, it's a vibe, it's, it's an attitude, it's a mood.
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Even I could explain it that way to um keep yourself upbeat, to put yourself out there, to know what it is you want.
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I've learned so much about men um dating as well.
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I I divorced in my mid-50s and what?
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What I see is men are really more sensitive than we ever imagined.
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They're more unsure of themselves, insecure, and so a lot of times it's not really about us.
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If we can let go of our expectations and let go of outcome and just open our heart and get to know this person.
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If it's one date, if it's more than that, learn experience, go on more dates, because every time you go on a date, you learn more about yourself in those situations and that's where you can grow right.
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Yeah, yeah, that is definitely true.
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I've learned a lot about me.
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But it is so funny Some of the dates have.
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I always go back to this one, because the way to get away from me what he said, it was just different.
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He is like I've been thinking about it.
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You're going to think I'm weird, but you remind me a lot of Drew Barrymore and you even talk like her and I absolutely don't like her.
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Okay, let's manifest that one.
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I was like I had to laugh at that because I never heard such thing and I don't think I look like her or talk like her, but she's a beautiful woman.
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I have nothing against Drew, but obviously this guy did.
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Well, you know, when you learn the Enneagram personalities, there's nine personalities and there's, you know, there's the thinkers, there's the heart centered people and there's the heart-centered people and there's the instinct people.
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And people who are unemotional will, you know, not be attracted to an emotional person if they haven't opened up their own emotions.
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So him saying that to you, and I don't like her, he's a shutdown gal, a guy for now, and that's wonderful.
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Thank you for letting me know.
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We don't need to continue this and I'm open to someone who values what I have, knows that I'm a warm-hearted person, that I'm caring, that I'm loving, that I'm nurturing and that's who I am.
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So if that doesn't fit for you, thank you for telling me right off the bat.
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Yeah, perfect, you see how you can release the energy of that instead of beating yourself up with, oh man, am I ever going to find someone?
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Or?
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You know, I don't see why you didn't fit with me.
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It's not personal and you and we do the same thing, right, if we haven't healed the baggage from our previous relationship.
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You know, I had one guy said to me I'm tired of meeting women who I'm supposed to fix every relationship with every man they've had, including their father prior to this and I'm not up for that challenge.
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Yeah, I went.
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That is a really good statement.
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Like, ladies, do your own healing.
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Like, be open to the next man and I see that so often with women dating is boy, you better treat me right.
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You better treat me like a queen, you better, you better.
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And are we really valuing him and treating him like a king?
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Are we really appreciative of this man who is attempting to connect with us?
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and I always say know yourself, love yourself, before you go and give that to try to date again.
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Um, because that's the last thing is that you know, when I go on my dates I kind of wait and see if they ask me version going into the future.
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I don't want to dwell on the past, I want to look for what could be good in my life in the future.
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So that's how I kind of take it in my hands.
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So if we can manifest that, you know, if we're doing that work, why would we bring up the negatives Exactly?
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exactly.
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That's a really good point.
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You know, as we learn and grow and release, we are different, and that's a different vibrational level.
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Right, we are different going forward, and that's we're looking for compatibility.
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That's what people don't always understand.
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They believe it's chemistry.
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Chemistry is great, but even chemistry will not be sustainable if your life values and your lifestyle is not compatible.
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It's more of a struggle.
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Could you make it work?
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You probably could, with enough effort from both of you, but you want someone who's going to fit in your life and with you.
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Exactly.
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Yeah, I'm going to use me as a target right now.
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So for me, single mom, but my son is young and my daughter is an adult, so she's on her own.
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So when looking at it, it's like I had to do my boundaries.
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What am I looking for in somebody?
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I want simple things.
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Can the man throw a football, like you know?
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Am I still going to play the daddy version, the mom and dad for my son?
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You know the different things.
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Will they have time to invest?
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You know, and go to a game and be supportive?
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Will they be open-minded to new things?
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You know.
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But, like I interviewed somebody before, andreas, and it was a couple days ago, and he has a method, psychology or something it's called psychology, but I like what he said because it makes you see the other partners values and their traits.
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So when you ask this one question, I'm going to make everybody watch it now.
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It opens that door to know what they're like and in today's world they talk about, like the questions that are asked.
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And my daughter threw me off.
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She's like, before I went on this date, what's his sign, mom?
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And then he was like Scorpio and my daughter was just like you're an Aquarius.
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No, no, it's not going to work.
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Don't even try.
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And I never understood it.
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I was like, well, he's a person.
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Of course I'm going to try.
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You know, I don't know if I fully believe in all that.
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So you know, we had great conversations on the phone.
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I'm just not going to turn it over and say, hey, you're a Scorpio.
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And my daughter said, no, yeah, that's not going to pan out.
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Well, I don't know.
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I believe that you can make any relationship work, no matter what your astrology sign.
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Yeah, what I know with the Enneagram the Enneagram personality is a very advanced model over the other personality ones.
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It has a path of development to become your very best self.
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It has a spiritual side and it really shows you how your personality was formed as a child to get your needs met.
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