Aug. 17, 2024

Navigating Chronic Illness with Humor and Resilience with Heather Gray

Navigating Chronic Illness with Humor and Resilience with Heather Gray

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Heather Gray joins us on Keep Hope Alive, bringing her unique blend of expertise as a functional diagnostic nutritionist and comedian to share her inspiring journey through chronic illness. Heather’s story is a testament to resilience, as she navigates the complexities of celiac disease, Lyme disease, mold toxicity, and mental health challenges, all while turning her pain into laughter. She helps us understand the significant differences between functional and traditional Western medicine, particularly in addressing brain inflammation and mental health—topics often misunderstood and overlooked.

Heather provides an enlightening discussion on the symptoms and challenges of diagnosing Lyme disease and mold-related illnesses. With personal anecdotes, she highlights the frustration many patients face and the perseverance required to find accurate answers. She introduces us to alternative testing methods, such as Vibrant Labs and Dna Connections, and underscores the importance of knowledgeable practitioners in the journey toward healing. Heather also emphasizes the critical need to address the root causes of chronic pain and autoimmune diseases, advocating for lifestyle changes rather than merely masking symptoms.

In a heartwarming blend of humor and heartfelt discussion, Heather shares her experiences with societal pressures and misinformation that keep people unhealthy. She dives into the significance of emotional and psychological healing and the incremental improvements that mark the path to better health. Heather’s use of comedy not only raises awareness but also lightens the mood around serious health issues. Don’t miss her insights on the health risks of consuming tuna due to mercury content, the potential benefits of raw milk, and her upcoming comedy shows that promise both laughter and enlightenment. Stay tuned to Keep Hope Alive for more inspiring stories and practical health tips!

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Chapters

00:02 - Chronic Illness and Comedy

08:58 - Navigating Chronic Illness and Finding Answers

21:45 - Holistic Healing and Lifestyle Education

30:58 - Healing, Comedy, and Self-Expression

44:03 - Health and Nutrition Awareness Discussion

54:01 - Grocery Store Tour and Comedy Integration

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Hello and welcome to Keep Hope Alive podcast.

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We have a wonderful guest today.

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I'm so excited to have Heather Gray here with us.

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I am just so amazed.

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She's truly talented and funny.

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She is a diagnostic nutritionist.

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She knows a lot about different chronic illnesses and complex illnesses and on the side the fun part she's a comedian.

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With going out on her little comedian tours and everything and having a good time, I'm sure we're going to have a great visit today.

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So welcome, heather, I'm so excited to have you here.

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Thanks for having me.

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Oh, you're welcome.

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I do have one question before we get started how many weddings have you been to in the last 15 years?

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Not very many, I would say three.

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Three, okay.

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Well, my next question would be say you're going to a wedding, you're going into the ceremony part.

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What is that thing you need to sign that the bride and groom know you're here?

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A registry.

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Yes, very good, okay.

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What do I win?

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You win a new shiny penny Copper Love it.

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You were hoping for a car, right.

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You win a new shiny penny.

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Oh copper.

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Love it.

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You were hoping for a car right.

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I was.

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I thought you were going to pull an Oprah on me.

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You get a car and you get a car.

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That would be so nice.

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I would love for that one day.

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Maybe we can find a sponsor who will do that on one of the shows.

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If you're listening, you have won.

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All right.

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So my first question is who is Heather Gray?

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That's a good question.

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I'm still trying to figure that out myself, you know.

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But I think what most people want to know is like, how did you get started in this line of work?

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You know I'm a functional diagnostic nutritionist and you know it's functional.

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Functional, yeah, that's a huge key piece because there's a definite difference between functional medicine and and kind of western med.

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And I always have to start off with the disclaimer I am not poo-pooing western med.

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You know, if you get caught in a car accident and you become the bionic woman like, there is nothing better than western bed to put you back together.

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But when it comes to chronic, complex illnesses, prevention we all know that it falls drastically short of being helped.

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You know with, you know, the United States being one of the lowest in far as you know health goes and we're spending the most money on prescription drugs.

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Like there's a there's a disconnect there.

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But my disconnect started when I was four.

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I was basically born full of shit.

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You know, like how many people could relate to being constipated as a kid?

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You know my feet would fall asleep from sitting on the potty for so long and that's what started me off with the let's put band-aids on symptoms.

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You know, let's give her laxatives and stool softeners, but let's you know, I haven't tried to figure out why this four-year-old can't poop Hindsight's 2020.

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That was the year my uncle committed suicide.

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That was also the year my grandmother died of breast cancer.

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I was being raised by alcoholic addicts, young alcoholic addicts.

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So needless to say that the trauma the early childhood trauma in my life was was great and it triggered my celiac disease, and so I think that's kind of what started me on my path to being more prone to autoimmune mold, toxicity, lyme disease, two stints in the psych ward myself for suicide attempts, a hundred pounds overweight, issues with addiction, like all the things, but definitely the one that I'm most outspoken about is usually Lyme and mold and mental health stuff, because it's just still not a lot of people are talking about it.

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Not a people realize you know how much it affects people.

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You know.

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That's why in some of the comedy I bring up brain inflammation and hey, let's stop calling people crazy.

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Instead, let's say your brain inflammation is showing right, because once you have that stigma of crazy slapped on you, it's really, really hard to get off and it's really hard for people to take you seriously after things like that have happened.

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So it's a subject I'm really passionate about.

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Yeah, I would be too.

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And before we even got started, I told you about my best friend being exposed to mold and that's hard.

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She's no longer with us, but you know she she's probably here in spirit, right next to me going.

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Oh my gosh, she would be yelling at you.

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Tell the world what I went through.

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So that would be from charity.

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Yeah, absolutely, and it's.

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It's sad that still.

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I mean mold is even even more confusing and not enough known about than Lyme disease.

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Like Lyme was the big mystery one years ago, but we're now starting to get more and more education and awareness around it.

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Mold is so much more insidious because I mean when they say the statistics are like 50% of buildings have been water damaged and so if you have water damaged buildings, you know you have a higher risk of mold.

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If you've got crappy genetics, like I do, that doesn't allow your body to detox mold.

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You could be out of mold from 10 years ago but still having effects from it because you have to do something special to detox it out of the body.

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You know you get mold from eating grains and drinking coffee.

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Coffee, peanuts and grains are some of the biggest sources of mold in our food.

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People don't realize it and so it's a pretty gnarly, especially with all the ADHD, the anxiety, the depression, the asthma, allergies, food sensitivities, like a lot of these things.

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People don't realize migraines, you know actually very well, could be a mold toxicity issue and not, you know, a Ritalin deficiency or a Prozac deficiency, or you know what I mean.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, I do.

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I keep thinking back to me because my doctor, I thought I was having a stroke and they were like, no, you just got chronic migraines.

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I was like I think I would know the difference, but obviously I don't.

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They're my doctor.

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So they were like here's a pill.

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That's the famous line here's a pill, try this, let's see what it does for you.

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And I remember I was at my neurologist.

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He was trying to put me on something else too.

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And I go hey, tell me what's the vitamin that acts like this.

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And he's like magnesium.

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I go okay, that's all I need.

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I don't want to try another pill.

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I'm tired of pills Like, give me a vitamin, but definitely.

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I mean I kind of like Lyme disease.

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I'm trying to remember all that entails in that.

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So can you tell me a little bit about Lyme?

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Lyme is the great mimicker.

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They also call it a nature's dirty needle, because a tick or another you know blood sucking insect will go from creature to creature to creature to creature, kind of developing this little cocktail of stuff.

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And so by the time it gets to you then you get all the things and it usually never comes by itself.

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So Lyme itself is a spiral-shaped bacteria and it's related to syphilis and it can infiltrate any system, any organ, any tissue in the body and kind of start shutting things down slowly.

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It loves collagen, so it really likes to hang out in people's joints.

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That's why there's so much joint pain.

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It likes to cause a lot of inflammation.

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It can cross the blood-blaine barrier.

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That's why there's a lot of mental illness around folks with Lyme.

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So some of the more common symptoms are fatigue, night sweats, not being able to sleep, anxiety, depression, chronic, widespread pain.

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Migrating pain is probably one of the biggest ones, though You'll see a flag on the play because there's only like six diseases in the whole disease category that has migrating pain as one of the symptoms.

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So if you have a friend who talks, one day, oh, that's my right shoulder one day, and the next day it's my left elbow and then it's my right knee.

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They're not crazy, you're a hypochondriac.

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It very well could be Lyme disease.

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So, most folks think that you get that bullseye rash.

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Sadly, only 30% of the population gets that bullseye rash.

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If you have that bullseye rash, you absolutely have Lyme disease.

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But just because you didn't get the bull's eye rash doesn't mean that you're in the clear, you know.

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So it usually also comes with co-infections other viruses, other bacteria, mold, mold and Lyme are usually hand in hand and often misdiagnosed because a lot of the symptoms kind of overlap each other.

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But yeah, that's kind of Lyme.

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In a nutshell, there's a lot of different species.

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There's one out there right now that comes from the Lone Star tick that causes something called Alpha-Gal syndrome, where it actually gives you an allergic reaction to red meat.

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So people can no longer eat red meat.

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Wow, yeah, now is there anything like people can just go get tested and make sure they don't have mold.

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Mold or Lyme, both.

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So the testing for both can be a little on the funky side.

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Lyme has its tendency to like to shut your immune system down.

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So if you've had it for a while, a traditional test that your doctor will do most likely will come back negative, which is false.

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They'll want to do a Western blot, they'll do an ELISA, which there's massive flaws in both of those testing.

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I use a company called Vibrant Labs.

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Dna Connections, igenix are really great companies to get tested for Lyme Mold same thing.

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Mold sometimes can be a little more difficult because it depends on.

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There's not a real great test out there that can tell you like is it right now, is it from food, is it from your water building, or is it like in my case, was it from 10 years ago that you're still, you know, circulating in your body and having issues with you know?

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So a lot of times I'll test a person's environment and test themselves to kind of see what might be going on.

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But yeah, there's a lot of testing can be tricky but there's definitely ways around it.

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Yeah, because I know where my friend was staying.

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She didn't know there was mold under the couch in the living room and that was a majority of time spent there.

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So when it got into her lungs it's just eating away.

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She couldn't get rid of it.

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Hospitals had a hard time trying to get rid of it.

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Then she's on oxygen.

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It's like you know.

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I think if doctors I hate to say this they need to be more understanding what the patient is going through instead of being like oh well, I don't know this, this is not considered an emergency, you're not dying right now.

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Just follow up with your doctor.

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Did you know what doctors do now?

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Oh, go to the emergency room.

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You know you're finding this as an emergency.

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So how?

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I mean?

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Yes, they overlap each other and it's confusing.

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I'm sure there's people here going I have those symptoms, but maybe I don't have Lyme or I don't have that, but I have all these other aches and pains that will come with autoimmune, and that's where I'm really going with this is the word autoimmune can mean so many different illnesses, correct?

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Oh yeah, okay, so I mean, the one thing everybody knows about me is we can't figure out what's wrong with you.

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You know you can go testing in this other state and they can try to figure it out.

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I'm just at the point.

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It is what it is.

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I'll just sit back and enjoy life and if it gets really, really, really bad, then I'll go.

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But I don't know if you ever heard of this one thing called neuralgia parathasikia.

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Have you ever heard of that?

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I have no feeling in my left leg.

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I can walk.

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I'm not crying all the time, but I've been shocked like lightning 20, 30 times a day.

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It's gone down into my foot for diabetic neuropathy.

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But they put a stimulator in my back.

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I'm battery operated now.

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I mean they want me to charge myself for like two hours.

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It was weird because for me that I've turned myself off.

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That sounds funny.

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I turn myself off.

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I don't use that because I think it was actually making whatever currents in my leg worse.

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So, but I'm just going to.

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We're electromagnetic beings.

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So I mean, if you've got something in your body that's interfering with your electrical field, I mean absolutely it's going to you know I'm a big fan of of getting to the root cause of things.

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Right, and sadly a lot of folks do.

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They'll be like I've seen 10, 15, 20, 30 practitioners and nobody can give me any answers, you know.

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And so then I tell them well, what's your, what's your choice?

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Just to go, you know, lay down, give up and and and take whatever comes at you.

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You know, it could be that 31st practitioner that actually knows what the hell's going on.

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And then, yay, look at all the things that you've ruled out, that you know that it's not right.

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Like I mean, it took me 27.

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I was undiagnosed for over 27 years, you know, and if I would have completely given up, I'd probably be dead right now instead of being.

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She had a little twinkle in her eye and she goes.

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I know exactly what's wrong with you and I was like you're freaking crazy lady, like there's no way in hell.

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And she's like, do you ever get bit by a tick?

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I said yeah, when I was 13,.

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Why she goes?

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I'm pretty sure you have Lyme disease and that was what started that journey.

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Now there were multiple layers to pull back since then.

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So then I, you know, worked with the Lyme.

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I worked with the parasites, the heavy metals, the leaky gut, and then I hit a plateau and my plateau was living in mold, right, and then I tested positive and my cons in my nose.

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So then I had to peel that stuff back and then I started relapsing again and then that was when I started doing the nervous system resetting because mold is insidious.

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We all kind of maybe have heard of the fight or flight syndrome.

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Right, our autonomic nervous system, we got rest and digest, parasympathetic, sympathetic.

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Fight or flight, and mold is insidious for turning on those alarm bells in your nervous system Fire, fire, fire, fire.

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But the sad thing is is even when you're out of the building the alarm bells are still on, nobody shut them off.

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So you're in fight or flight all the time and you can't heal when you're always running from a tiger.

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So that was the last little piece that I had to work with was kind of getting my nervous system calmed down.

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You know mindfulness, training, nervous system rewiring, that kind of stuff, and it really helped dial things into the point where I haven't had a relapse.

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I haven't had a Lyme flare and autoimmune flare in over three years.

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You know, if I get a cold, I just get the cold.

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When I got COVID, I got my ass kicked and I got COVID, you know.

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But I got over it and it wasn't anything else along with it because of all the things that I've done in the way that I live my life now, you know it's to some people it looks a little on the high maintenance side.

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I look a little bit like a bubble girl without the bubble, but again, I'm living freaking life to its fullest in a way that I never thought I could.

00:16:51.673 --> 00:16:54.625
I'm always telling people don't give up.

00:16:54.625 --> 00:16:55.929
Don't give up, continue to look.

00:16:55.929 --> 00:16:58.183
It's frustrating, but don't give up.

00:16:58.183 --> 00:17:00.268
There's somebody out there that's going to have the answers for you.

00:17:01.529 --> 00:17:09.476
Yeah, and when you find those doctors, it's amazing that they actually want to help or they tell you something.

00:17:09.476 --> 00:17:12.018
How have you looked into this?

00:17:12.018 --> 00:17:17.800
I've ran into doctors I felt and they go hold on, I'll be right back.

00:17:17.800 --> 00:17:22.884
And I picture them walking into another room hey, alexa, what does she have?

00:17:22.884 --> 00:17:23.325
You know?

00:17:23.345 --> 00:17:27.387
different things like that that's funny.

00:17:27.569 --> 00:17:29.517
Oh my gosh, my Alexa just went off.

00:17:29.517 --> 00:17:31.673
Hold on, alexa, turn off.

00:17:31.673 --> 00:17:34.101
I'm sorry, that's so fun.

00:17:34.101 --> 00:17:37.461
I'm going to turn her off too when I do a podcast.

00:17:37.461 --> 00:17:40.959
I'm having trouble finding out what's wrong with you.

00:17:43.352 --> 00:17:51.974
Well, and part of it could be Alexa, because a lot of that Bluetooth and wi-fi that we got going on it's a little too much for our electoral.

00:17:51.974 --> 00:17:55.422
You know I said yes, we're electrical beings.

00:17:55.422 --> 00:17:57.192
A lot of that stuff interferes.

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You know, one of the biggest things that I tell people to do right off the bat is to shut their wi-fi off at night, because giving their body a break from the constant barrage of electrical signals, especially to those of us that have got chronic illness I've seen it almost every single time If you've got any kind of chronic anything going on, you typically have the genes that make you a little bit more susceptible to being sensitive to EMFs, being sensitive to chemical exposures, like perfumes and glade plug-in that kind of nastiness that nobody should be using because it's toxic.

00:18:30.698 --> 00:18:31.901
But uh, yeah.

00:18:31.901 --> 00:18:39.719
So you know, lowering your pollution you know whether it's chemical or emf, you know helps- out greatly.

00:18:40.661 --> 00:18:42.183
Yeah, definitely, I hear you.

00:18:42.183 --> 00:18:48.270
My biggest thing is I'll watch reels to fall asleep, but then I'll put it down.

00:18:48.270 --> 00:18:54.143
I've watched TV and if that doesn't work, I put my AirPods in and listen to an audible book.

00:18:54.143 --> 00:18:57.336
For some reason, authors can put me to sleep.

00:18:57.336 --> 00:18:58.077
I don't get it.

00:18:58.077 --> 00:19:06.583
But I listen to the five-hour stories and I'm like uh-huh, I'm probably talking in my sleep like hey, that's a good boy.

00:19:06.583 --> 00:19:21.102
But yeah, also, growing up with epilepsy, I know it's not good for me to see a lot of the computer screens or even flashing lights or stuff like that.

00:19:21.102 --> 00:19:30.454
And it's important for me to actually get a full night of sleep, because if I only get like four hours, that can trigger a seizure and I don't like that.

00:19:30.454 --> 00:19:35.561
So I'm always like no, go to bed early, do this and that you know, be on top of your game.

00:19:35.561 --> 00:19:39.051
So, but definitely so.

00:19:39.051 --> 00:19:50.615
Do you do maybe it's on your podcast or do you help people through zoom meetings, trying to help them figure out, you know, if something's happening to them?

00:19:51.897 --> 00:19:55.104
I typically have people first um, start with my course.

00:19:55.104 --> 00:19:56.031
I have an online course.

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It's really ridiculously, you know, affordable at 67 it's.

00:20:01.006 --> 00:20:02.873
You know multiple modules one on sleep, one on.

00:20:02.873 --> 00:20:03.837
You know supplementation stress reduction.

00:20:03.837 --> 00:20:05.204
You know multiple modules one on sleep, one on.

00:20:05.204 --> 00:20:07.173
You know, supplementation stress reduction.

00:20:07.173 --> 00:20:08.396
You know toxins.

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I've even got like a eight video cooking series in there because so many people they're like I want them to eat real food and they look at me like I have two heads because they've never been in the kitchen, so I teach them.

00:20:19.539 --> 00:20:26.201
You know, here's how you start cooking healthy, real food and here's why we're using cast iron instead of Teflon.

00:20:26.201 --> 00:20:29.454
Right, here's why we're using glass instead of plastic.

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So cause, all those things matter.

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All those toxic burdens add up on our body burden, total body burden, and the name of the game is the more that we can lessen that stuff, the more than our body then can take over and go.

00:20:40.938 --> 00:20:43.592
Oh, I know what the hell to do now.

00:20:43.592 --> 00:20:47.922
Like it's built to heal if we get out of its way and do so.

00:20:47.922 --> 00:21:05.112
But right now, this world is just not conducive for human health and we're seeing it around us with diabetes, rising autism, rising obesity, rising autoimmune, rising mental health and people are like oh, you're just acting like pollyanna, like everything's gonna make you sick in the world and the sky's falling.

00:21:05.112 --> 00:21:06.675
Well, it kind of is.

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Folks like open up your eyes and look around you.

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There's a lot of people out there suffering that don't need to be suffering.

00:21:13.655 --> 00:21:21.055
Exactly Like your friend, like you, you know, like me for 27 years, like my kid, like it's just, it's too damn.

00:21:21.055 --> 00:21:31.096
Obviously you can tell I'm I'm passionate about it because it just it pisses me off and it makes me sad and it makes me sick that there are so many people like I said, just, and it's just pure ignorance.

00:21:31.096 --> 00:21:38.819
You know, when we're brought up, when we're brought up and it says this is a part of a balanced breakfast, bullshit, that's diabetes in the making.

00:21:39.582 --> 00:21:45.877
You know so no, yeah, you know I was.

00:21:45.877 --> 00:21:52.445
I love my new job, but this has happened to every job and I love my coffee.

00:21:52.445 --> 00:21:59.314
Drinking Coca-Cola and having a wine at night that's just my pattern.

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I've been through bariatric surgeries and blah, blah, blah.

00:22:00.678 --> 00:22:01.259
Here's the thing.

00:22:01.259 --> 00:22:03.924
That's all I want to drink Water.

00:22:03.924 --> 00:22:09.731
Yeah, I love when the waitress goes, do you need a water with your wine?

00:22:09.731 --> 00:22:14.039
And I'm like for decoration, I'm not going to touch it.

00:22:14.039 --> 00:22:24.496
I don't know why I have a fear that their glass of water is a dirty glass still, because it's either constantly going through the dishwasher or something.

00:22:24.496 --> 00:22:25.499
But I just won't.

00:22:25.499 --> 00:22:26.300
I don't know why.

00:22:26.300 --> 00:22:28.176
I have never figured that one out.

00:22:28.176 --> 00:22:33.362
But having those people go, oh, the Coke is what's going to hurt you in life.

00:22:33.362 --> 00:22:36.577
And like, I always want to have a comeback.

00:22:36.577 --> 00:22:40.049
Yeah, like, if you smoke, that's going to hurt you in life.

00:22:40.049 --> 00:22:46.103
If you do this and you're drinking vodka and tequila at night or Jack Daniels, that's going to hurt you.

00:22:46.103 --> 00:22:50.340
But I'm not going to sit around telling people this is what's going to hurt you.

00:22:51.431 --> 00:22:56.583
And I will, because it will, because people stay ignorant and they are going to stay sick.

00:22:56.583 --> 00:23:00.881
Right it's, it's how you, you know you educate folks.

00:23:01.891 --> 00:23:05.237
You know it's funny because, um, I was.

00:23:05.237 --> 00:23:08.623
This happened a year ago or maybe more than a year.

00:23:08.623 --> 00:23:15.123
Two years ago my leg was having a lot of issues and I just couldn't break away.

00:23:15.123 --> 00:23:23.544
There was a wife and husband at where I go to do karaoke and we just started talking on the topic of chronic pain.

00:23:23.544 --> 00:23:25.596
I was like, yeah, I got it in my leg.

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He goes.

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It's going to sound nasty, but there's a shot for that, not like a needle, but there is a shot you can have here.

00:23:33.151 --> 00:23:35.536
And I was like, okay, what is it?

00:23:35.536 --> 00:23:43.796
My friend would yell at me today and people who see me take this shot, it does take it away temporarily.

00:23:43.796 --> 00:23:44.836
Maybe it's mind over matter.

00:23:44.836 --> 00:23:46.839
This shot, it does take it away temporarily, maybe it's mind over matter.

00:23:46.839 --> 00:23:50.665
There you go, you get Fireball, you get Rumpel and Jaeger and mix it together.

00:23:50.665 --> 00:23:57.218
It has a couple of times, but I don't even do it all the time.

00:23:57.218 --> 00:24:07.136
But I was like this was a different way of kind of caring, you know for somebody, giving advice and everything, but I don't recommend it.

00:24:07.136 --> 00:24:11.214
People smell it and they're like, oh no.

00:24:11.214 --> 00:24:22.501
But other than that, what other things in the autoimmune have you seen that have been very mimicky of other illnesses?

00:24:24.392 --> 00:24:25.796
I mean so many.

00:24:25.796 --> 00:24:35.161
That's why they get yeah, that's why they get misdiagnosed so often or they get put in like a catch-all category of fibromyalgia.

00:24:35.161 --> 00:24:45.134
Chronic fatigue, you know, you know, and for like the chronic pain people you know, read Dr Peter Osborne's book no Pain, no Grain no Grain, no Pain.

00:24:45.134 --> 00:24:55.217
You know there's things that you can do to lessen what you have, like you don't have to continue to suffer at the extent that you do where you're doing these outrageous things.

00:24:55.217 --> 00:25:01.321
A lot of times it's lifestyle and it's like I said this life is not conducive to human health.

00:25:01.321 --> 00:25:09.336
We've been fed a lot of lies and a lot of BS from a lot of big corporations that make money off of sick people, you know.

00:25:09.336 --> 00:25:12.694
So if you want to take your power back, you know the truth is there.

00:25:12.694 --> 00:25:14.786
You just got to dig just a little bit under the surface.

00:25:15.167 --> 00:25:16.913
But a lot of people don't want to change their lifestyle.

00:25:16.913 --> 00:25:29.571
They like their Coke and they like their glass of wine and they like their, their bread and whatever, and it's like okay, fine, then put up with the pain and and get used to being in pain, because unfortunately it won't get better on its own Usually.

00:25:29.571 --> 00:25:31.740
And so I had this guy the other day.

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He's like, well, I'm going to meet my you know, he's probably 275 pounds overweight.

00:25:36.257 --> 00:25:43.198
And he's like I'll just meet my maker, fat and happy, and I'm like that's great, and hopefully your diabetes doesn't get worse by then.

00:25:43.198 --> 00:25:53.701
Or you know, you can still get your penis up, or you know, your brain's not too inflamed, like people think that these, these things are normal, but they're not normal.

00:25:53.701 --> 00:25:56.471
They're common, but they're not normal, right, and that you don't have to live life that way.

00:25:57.694 --> 00:26:03.752
Exactly, exactly, and I mean, yeah, going back to the coffee, there's some things people don't change.

00:26:03.752 --> 00:26:05.276
I interviewed somebody.

00:26:05.276 --> 00:26:17.119
Well, a couple people have said this when you have tragedy in your life and if you can take it out and just dissect it a little bit, it helps relieve pain.

00:26:17.119 --> 00:26:22.231
Also, and I was like huh, so I've been trying that lately.

00:26:22.231 --> 00:26:25.278
What are the things that are traumatizing to me?

00:26:25.398 --> 00:26:42.738
so that has been this year and last year's focus to see if it could help oh, absolutely, yeah, if you're actually getting to the root cause of things and figuring it out and typically it helps to work with somebody who's experiencing this sort of thing yes, absolutely, that is.

00:26:42.738 --> 00:26:43.559
You know they're.

00:26:43.559 --> 00:26:46.294
Start off with the book, keep the book, uh, the body keeps score.

00:26:46.294 --> 00:26:49.199
It's, it's in the name, the body keeps score.

00:26:49.199 --> 00:27:09.743
All these, all these things especially as women who weren't allowed to feel or express emotions because it seemed weak or it wasn't allowed in the workplace, it wasn't professional, you know, and all these things we stuff down, stuff down, stuff down it comes out sideways as an autoimmune disease, as a chronic illness, as cancer, you know so absolutely.

00:27:10.684 --> 00:27:14.902
Yeah, and I mean people will be going through these illnesses.

00:27:14.902 --> 00:27:18.460
Don't listen to the other people.

00:27:18.460 --> 00:27:21.493
Oh, you have something Every year.

00:27:21.493 --> 00:27:24.281
It feels like I hate that line from people.

00:27:24.281 --> 00:27:29.231
It's just like no, I'm not asking for illnesses to come.

00:27:29.231 --> 00:27:32.377
Like, do we have a real person?

00:27:32.377 --> 00:27:39.980
My friend who passed, we were sounding boards, venting, we wanted to be heard from our doctors and stuff.

00:27:39.980 --> 00:27:45.981
And I think you know when you go to a doctor and said this is how I'm feeling, it hurts.

00:27:47.373 --> 00:27:50.060
I had one doctor tell me I was crazy in the head.

00:27:50.060 --> 00:27:51.895
It is all in my head.

00:27:51.895 --> 00:28:00.990
I had somebody do a back procedure on me and it was a decompression.

00:28:00.990 --> 00:28:04.220
And when I went to my family doctor, something's not right.

00:28:04.220 --> 00:28:06.057
She told me I was crazy.

00:28:06.057 --> 00:28:20.060
So I went to a CBD store seeing if there was any kind of magic relief, trying to learn what CBD was, and he the guy who owned it said I want you to go to this chiropractor.

00:28:20.060 --> 00:28:20.903
I did.

00:28:20.903 --> 00:28:23.699
It was a simple freaking x-ray on my back.

00:28:23.699 --> 00:28:27.799
She did and she circled get to a back surgeon right away.

00:28:27.799 --> 00:28:35.423
She found that the piece had slid out of my bone and they were rubbing together.

00:28:35.423 --> 00:28:40.019
So to the doctor who calls me crazy in the head.

00:28:40.019 --> 00:28:41.823
It was another surgery.

00:28:41.823 --> 00:28:47.962
But don't be too quick to jump on people when they have a real concern.

00:28:47.962 --> 00:28:57.265
So I know, with all this medical stuff that you do and stuff, tell me about your podcast.

00:28:57.265 --> 00:28:58.772
I'm really interested in that.

00:28:58.772 --> 00:29:00.856
What topics do you cover?

00:29:00.856 --> 00:29:03.603
On a little bit of everything, I bet.

00:29:04.269 --> 00:29:06.097
Yeah, because that's what it takes to get better.

00:29:06.097 --> 00:29:17.171
Really, when it comes to healing, like I said, there's a lot of folks even functional practitioners are guilty of really focusing on the physical and not looking at the mental, emotional, the trauma piece.

00:29:17.171 --> 00:29:19.518
And you have to, and then you've got the trauma folks.

00:29:19.518 --> 00:29:20.681
That that's all they're looking at.

00:29:20.681 --> 00:29:25.836
They're not looking at the physical piece or the diet or the lifestyle, right, it's the whole picture.

00:29:25.836 --> 00:29:38.696
So it's everything you know, and I'm going to actually start getting more comedians on more you know, lifestyle people on more everything, because it's really it's just information that's on the fringe.

00:29:38.696 --> 00:29:43.775
That should be, for you know, right up there in front, like it was a podcast that helped save my life.

00:29:43.875 --> 00:29:47.872
I heard the founder of FDN, which is my certification.

00:29:47.872 --> 00:29:48.653
His name is Reed Davis.

00:29:48.653 --> 00:29:51.240
He was on a podcast with a guy named Sean Croxton.

00:29:51.240 --> 00:30:02.330
It's called underground wellness and he was talking about how you have to heal the gut and balance the hormones and make sure your detox pathways are open, and I was a hairstylist at the time for 15 years.

00:30:02.330 --> 00:30:08.101
I didn't have a background in medicine but for some reason that it made sense to me, I was intuitively.

00:30:08.101 --> 00:30:12.538
I was like this is the answer and that's what started me on my path into this world.

00:30:12.579 --> 00:30:15.872
And then, within three months later, my life was completely changed.

00:30:15.872 --> 00:30:21.250
As far as the pain that I felt, how bad my periods were, I lost like 45 pounds.

00:30:21.250 --> 00:30:27.271
I was no longer about thinking of killing myself 50 times a day, like it was a profound change.

00:30:27.271 --> 00:30:45.715
And so, you know, I've been doing that ever since, because, and so that's why I've had some of the biggest themes in the alternative health space talking about, I mean we're talking about urine therapy, we're talking about methylene blue, we're talking about I mean early childhood trauma, everything EMFs.

00:30:45.715 --> 00:30:58.654
If it has to do with human health and having a person be whole and joyful in their life, then that's what I've had spiritual leaders on, I've had authors on I mean all of it.

00:30:58.755 --> 00:31:03.619
Yeah, I've had how many hospitals and doctors.

00:31:03.619 --> 00:31:09.487
When they draw my blood, my HCG level is really high.

00:31:09.487 --> 00:31:15.569
They're like congratulations, you're pregnant, congratulations you're having a baby.

00:31:15.569 --> 00:31:20.221
And I'm like my ovaries are out and I had a full hysterectomy.

00:31:20.221 --> 00:31:23.780
What are you talking about, mary?

00:31:23.780 --> 00:31:28.576
I go I am not Mary, but it hasn't changed.

00:31:28.576 --> 00:31:33.457
So I've been pregnant for like two years, obviously so, but it's weird.

00:31:33.457 --> 00:31:34.635
I had one doctor.

00:31:34.635 --> 00:31:35.058
He goes.

00:31:35.058 --> 00:31:42.933
Well, your blood work is like a cow, chicken and horse and I was like are all these your rewards for being a doctor?

00:31:42.933 --> 00:31:44.459
On your wall and he goes yeah.

00:31:45.050 --> 00:31:45.372
I go.

00:31:45.372 --> 00:31:47.951
You compared me to a farm animal.

00:31:47.951 --> 00:31:51.398
He goes do you just want me to check you out?

00:31:51.398 --> 00:31:52.902
I go, no.

00:31:54.285 --> 00:32:08.288
I had a dime for all the horrific stories of the shit, the demeaning, dismissive crap that doctors have said to Lyme, mold, autoimmune chronic illness.

00:32:08.288 --> 00:32:10.011
I mean I could, I could retire.

00:32:10.011 --> 00:32:11.979
I mean it's just disgusting and I keep.

00:32:12.038 --> 00:32:31.647
It is still happening all the time girl, you need to have your own practice and everybody needs to come to you I do not care to go back to school to become a doctor because I do not want to be brainwashed in that bullshit way and and you know it's really, really heavy working with folks.

00:32:31.647 --> 00:32:33.752
I still, I still work with folks one-on-one.

00:32:33.752 --> 00:32:39.171
I I have a very few, few and select few because I just don't have the time.

00:32:39.171 --> 00:32:48.016
Um, that's why I have people start with the course and then, if they go through the course and then they still need help, then I'll put them through a really battery of intake forms.

00:32:48.016 --> 00:32:56.002
There are over 600 questions, but it's some of the most comprehensive intake forms I've ever seen and it saves people thousands of dollars on lab tests.

00:32:56.002 --> 00:33:03.095
I've seen so much clinical correlation to these intake forms compared to the lab tests that I don't run a whole lot of labs anymore.

00:33:03.095 --> 00:33:11.834
But and then the great thing is is that I can read have them redo the intake forms every two to three months to make sure that we're moving in the right direction.

00:33:12.193 --> 00:33:22.218
Cause that's the other thing that pisses me off is a doctor will put somebody on some course of treatment and have them on it for like a year without ever checking hey, is this working or is it not?

00:33:22.218 --> 00:33:23.665
Do we need to look at a different place.

00:33:23.665 --> 00:33:25.355
Or do we, you know, do we need to switch gears?

00:33:25.355 --> 00:33:29.875
You know, and it's people you really should start feeling better within a couple of months.

00:33:29.875 --> 00:33:31.723
You know, not a hundred percent.

00:33:31.723 --> 00:33:32.567
You've been sick for years.

00:33:32.567 --> 00:33:37.497
It's going to take a while, it's a marathon, not a sprint, but you should start seeing glimmers of hope in there.

00:33:37.497 --> 00:33:39.880
And start seeing glimmers of hope in there and it, you know, it just makes me sick that they'll.

00:33:39.880 --> 00:33:49.992
Yeah, I've been on these, you know, oral antibiotics for the last year and a half and I still feel like shit and I'm like and your doctor didn't think to switch it up or do anything different?

00:33:49.992 --> 00:33:50.432
No, they don't be done.

00:33:50.453 --> 00:33:56.821
I'm like, nope, after three months, I would have had you redo my intake forms and if things didn't get better, I'd be like, huh, we need to dig deeper.

00:33:56.821 --> 00:33:59.684
Do you ever had wisdom teeth pulled, you know?

00:33:59.684 --> 00:34:05.990
Or do you have root root canals?

00:34:05.990 --> 00:34:10.289
Oh, we might have cavitations, which is a low level of infection that lives in people's jaws, which causes a lot of brain inflammation and cognitive issues, you know?

00:34:10.289 --> 00:34:10.989
Or, oh, you're living.

00:34:10.989 --> 00:34:16.376
You're living in mold and you know, okay, well, we need to get you out of mold because we're not going to get the lime over until you're out of mold.

00:34:16.376 --> 00:34:16.597
You know.

00:34:16.597 --> 00:34:18.780
So there's all oh, sleep apnea, shit.

00:34:18.780 --> 00:34:21.061
You're not getting enough oxygen at night.

00:34:21.061 --> 00:34:27.360
All the best supplements in the world, all the best diet in the world, it's not going to do a hill of beans of good if you're not getting enough oxygen when you sleep.

00:34:27.360 --> 00:34:27.771
You know.

00:34:27.771 --> 00:34:32.210
So there's a lot of different, a lot of different rocks to look under, right, nope.

00:34:33.311 --> 00:34:33.552
Nope.

00:34:33.592 --> 00:34:35.115
Not that you know.

00:34:35.876 --> 00:34:38.884
Yeah, oh my, I love how you put it.

00:34:38.884 --> 00:34:44.510
Yeah, oh my, I love how you put it.

00:34:44.510 --> 00:34:45.632
But you mentioned the word cognitive.

00:34:45.632 --> 00:34:50.443
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It says hope is the mantra word and on the other side, oh, I wish I could show it.

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It's a little where am I?

00:35:02.141 --> 00:35:04.833
Okay, I totally disappeared.

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But it has an elastic on it and you just gently pull it and it goes against there and you use your mantra word.

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So they have mantra words like faith, hope, love, peace, no matter what mantra word you can say hey, I'm hoping for a great day today and I hope that I can make an A on this test.

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It does help with anxiety and depression and I'm going to throw PTSD in there for me because I have medical PTSD but just to use it, it really helps the cognitive part of it, redirect the thought.

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00:36:54.347 --> 00:37:01.630
All right, so let's get back.

00:37:01.630 --> 00:37:04.797
I got to hear about the comedy part and I think a lot of people want to know about your shows also.

00:37:04.797 --> 00:37:08.143
So you have a big career here and you're an author.

00:37:08.143 --> 00:37:09.692
I want to hear about that too.

00:37:09.692 --> 00:37:11.976
That was bullshit.

00:37:12.697 --> 00:37:13.960
That was a scam.

00:37:14.400 --> 00:37:15.583
I'm bitter about it.

00:37:15.583 --> 00:37:20.378
No, this woman, she was in a practitioner group.

00:37:20.378 --> 00:37:22.001
I thought she was legit.

00:37:22.001 --> 00:37:28.498
She charged like $5,000 to be a co-author in this book.

00:37:28.498 --> 00:37:30.583
So it's not even a book that I published.

00:37:30.583 --> 00:37:49.831
I've got one little piece in it and it was on autoimmune and there was recipes in it and a lot of them had grains and other bullshit in it and I thought my head was going to explode Cause I was like you said, this was for helping people with autoimmune and it's a very, very common knowledge that there are grains are part of the cause of these autoimmune diseases.

00:37:49.831 --> 00:37:53.690
You got to get these recipes out of there, so it was a kind of a bitter taste in my mouth.

00:37:53.731 --> 00:38:07.373
I actually ended up having to file bankruptcy last year and that ended up going to bankruptcy, so I don't talk much about the book because, okay, forget the book, forget, yeah, yeah, but the comedy is not an author I'm not no, I don't take that away, but we just want to talk about the book.

00:38:08.056 --> 00:38:13.581
Um, but, yeah I do need to get my story out though, um, but the comedy kind of has really taken over.

00:38:13.581 --> 00:38:18.356
Um, I had a show last night, I have a show tonight, I have a show tomorrow night, all in three different cities.

00:38:18.356 --> 00:38:20.161
It's nuts Like.

00:38:20.161 --> 00:38:28.211
My story is not a typical standup story, but so there's a doctor friend of mine who's has Asperger's and he does stand up.

00:38:28.552 --> 00:38:35.297
And we met in person for the first time and we had coffee and he knew I wanted to speak more, to get on more stages and educate.

00:38:35.297 --> 00:38:38.954
And within five minutes of meeting him, he's like have you ever thought about doing standup?

00:38:38.954 --> 00:38:41.038
And I was like why on earth would I do that?

00:38:41.038 --> 00:38:43.182
And he goes, cause I think you'd be really good at it.

00:38:43.182 --> 00:38:45.315
He's like do you have any trauma in your life?

00:38:45.315 --> 00:38:47.141
I said how much time do you have for lunch?

00:38:47.141 --> 00:38:52.278
He goes, it will really help you get more speaking gigs.

00:38:52.278 --> 00:38:53.161
He's like I'm telling you.

00:38:53.161 --> 00:38:57.538
And he's like it'll help just just strengthen that muscle up while you're on stage anyway.

00:38:57.538 --> 00:39:01.891
And I was like okay, so I take this class that he was in.

00:39:01.891 --> 00:39:07.103
And like halfway through the class I was like, ah no, this is no, this is too much.

00:39:07.103 --> 00:39:08.753
It's really vulnerable.

00:39:08.813 --> 00:39:09.755
I'm a practitioner.

00:39:09.755 --> 00:39:13.152
Right, I'm a professional and I'm talking about stuff I shouldn't you know.

00:39:13.152 --> 00:39:16.822
I'm revealing things about myself that not very many people knew.

00:39:16.822 --> 00:39:21.684
Um, but I'm in the thing that you know.

00:39:21.684 --> 00:39:29.675
If whatever I've gone through can help one person, then it's worth making myself look like an ass doing it right, judge me, don't like me, I don't care.

00:39:29.675 --> 00:39:36.219
If one person gets something from my story and goes this helped save my life, then it's freaking worth it.

00:39:36.219 --> 00:39:38.295
Yeah, yeah, agreed.

00:39:39.190 --> 00:39:40.153
So I we did.

00:39:40.153 --> 00:39:48.554
We did our comedy showcase for our class and then, like that was it, a month later I had my first paid gig in front of 200 women, which, like that, never happens.

00:39:48.554 --> 00:40:06.956
I killed it and then I've had several gigs since then and I have one group of people who want me to write stuff for what it's like to be an entrepreneur, especially a woman in business, and I have another group that wants me to write some material for addiction, because I've been sober now for a little while and definitely have a lot to say about that.

00:40:06.956 --> 00:40:16.182
So it's been a lot of fun, a lot of hard work and I'm still just shocked at how little comedians get paid, like the gig I did last night.

00:40:16.543 --> 00:40:20.025
Gig I did last night $25, $25, $25.

00:40:20.025 --> 00:40:25.507
And I had to drive 45 minutes there and back and then be there for an hour and a half.

00:40:25.507 --> 00:40:27.387
So I'm like that's like below minimum.

00:40:27.387 --> 00:40:33.478
I mean it's you really have to love it and I'm hoping that it gets better at some point.

00:40:33.478 --> 00:40:38.556
But yeah, you have a tip jar out there I think they did and I don't.

00:40:38.556 --> 00:40:40.521
There there was like six people in the crowd.

00:40:40.521 --> 00:40:43.936
Yeah, it was last night, was kind of brutal, but uh.

00:40:43.936 --> 00:40:46.762
But yeah, I had no idea.

00:40:46.762 --> 00:40:58.501
But some shows pay a lot better than other ones and, like I said, I hopefully at some point I'll get picked up by something bigger and you know you will you will, yeah, so hit us with your best shot.

00:40:58.800 --> 00:41:00.143
Can you give us a line?

00:41:06.969 --> 00:41:08.193
So that's the one thing about standup people.

00:41:08.193 --> 00:41:09.436
It's a rehearsed right, it's a bit that's rehearsed Improv.

00:41:09.436 --> 00:41:11.539
People can do things like off the cuff like that.

00:41:11.539 --> 00:41:16.820
So it cracks me up when I tell people I do standup, I get one or two responses say something funny.

00:41:16.820 --> 00:41:18.873
And I look at them and go it doesn't work that way.

00:41:18.873 --> 00:41:24.297
Or they tell me they're damn bad dad jokes and I have to sit there and laugh at them.

00:41:24.297 --> 00:41:33.416
Oh no, yeah, they, they just think they're fricking hilarious and they're wanting to tell you know, show you how funny they are, and you just have to go uh-huh, yeah, that was pretty funny.

00:41:33.416 --> 00:41:45.331
So, yeah, um, you know, but like, so the brain inflammation one.

00:41:45.331 --> 00:41:45.731
It's one part of my.

00:41:45.751 --> 00:41:47.054
My bit is, you know, I want to stop calling people crazy, you know.

00:41:47.054 --> 00:41:48.378
Instead I want to say your brain inflammation is showing, you know.

00:41:48.378 --> 00:41:51.423
Yeah, there's a that line from the 90s song insane in the membrane.

00:41:51.423 --> 00:41:55.376
I want to change the lyric to inflamed in the brain, you know.

00:41:55.376 --> 00:41:56.079
Oh, that's awesome.

00:41:56.079 --> 00:41:57.501
Yeah, the struggle is real.

00:41:57.501 --> 00:42:01.621
Right that there's a lot of people out there be nice to to one another, you know.

00:42:01.621 --> 00:42:02.764
And then I talk about dating.

00:42:02.764 --> 00:42:05.695
You know, asking your doctor if dating a younger man is right for you.

00:42:06.577 --> 00:42:10.230
But, that only makes sense if you heard the beginning of it.

00:42:10.230 --> 00:42:12.452
But we don't have time, yeah.

00:42:12.452 --> 00:42:18.420
It's kind of hard to pull out the bit because it's kind of I gotcha, I gotcha.

00:42:18.601 --> 00:42:22.186
So yeah, with relationships it's always fun.

00:42:22.186 --> 00:42:27.583
I've gone into a new venture with Dr Linda Namy.

00:42:27.583 --> 00:42:38.163
She is now officially a part of Keep Hope Alive, but we are doing a platform of dating, trying it a different way.

00:42:38.163 --> 00:42:50.561
Instead of swiping right, swiping left, get to know somebody, get to know yourself first, actually, and then go meet them, let them learn about them.

00:42:50.561 --> 00:42:58.342
You got to write to the love doctor I call her the love doctor and see if you can go on a date with this person.

00:42:58.342 --> 00:43:06.190
So, but I love hearing like when comedians are talking about health and relationships.

00:43:06.190 --> 00:43:07.836
I'll be there in a heartbeat.

00:43:07.836 --> 00:43:14.840
I can't even talk heartbeat, but anyways, definitely.

00:43:14.840 --> 00:43:17.715
Well, I want to say thank you so much for coming on this show.

00:43:17.715 --> 00:43:22.490
Now tell me if people want to look up or contact you.

00:43:22.490 --> 00:43:23.411
Where did they go?

00:43:24.494 --> 00:43:38.420
Everywhere it's the Renegade Health Boss R-E-N-E-G-A-D-E, because I didn't realize renegade's kind of a weird word to spell and like, right off the bat, I was at a comedy show and at the end they were like I don't know how to spell that.

00:43:38.420 --> 00:43:46.094
I was like, oh shit, but so I'm the renegade health boss everywhere.

00:43:46.094 --> 00:43:46.838
And you could start with my website.

00:43:46.838 --> 00:43:50.170
You can find there's a comedy page that will tell you where my next show is going to be, at what city, where I'm going to be at.

00:43:50.170 --> 00:43:57.740
There's another page for my podcast, there's a page for the course that I was telling you about, and then there's the free um.

00:43:57.740 --> 00:44:02.293
I have a free cooking series that you can sign up for and, you know, get started that way.

00:44:03.074 --> 00:44:04.197
Good, good, good good.

00:44:04.197 --> 00:44:05.340
I love tuna fish.

00:44:05.340 --> 00:44:07.152
Please tell me, tuna fish is okay.

00:44:07.713 --> 00:44:08.594
Absolutely not.

00:44:08.594 --> 00:44:11.420
Tuna fish is horrific Really.

00:44:11.420 --> 00:44:15.012
It's one of the highest fish in the in of mercury.

00:44:15.072 --> 00:44:17.016
We were to test your mercury levels.

00:44:17.677 --> 00:44:26.474
Yeah, okay, maybe not just mercury, really affects the brain and cognitive stuff as well.

00:44:26.474 --> 00:44:31.971
So yeah, yeah, yeah that explains me, then I'm like see it's too much tuna fish.

00:44:32.411 --> 00:44:34.215
Yeah, yes, I learned from trazini.

00:44:34.375 --> 00:44:40.505
Oh my gosh I just had to yeah, there's a hair test that you can.

00:44:40.505 --> 00:44:47.545
You can do it's a hair tissue mineral analysis and actually see what kind of heavy metals you've got in your system.

00:44:47.545 --> 00:44:51.829
It's quite fascinating, like metallica like I'm kidding.

00:44:56.096 --> 00:44:58.119
Yeah, I got you on that too.

00:44:58.119 --> 00:45:05.715
But that Now, if you guys have any questions, you can always call in.

00:45:05.715 --> 00:45:15.742
And the new thing I'm going to start doing with my podcast I'm excited is I'm going to start live streaming it pretty soon, so I'm excited to try that out.

00:45:15.742 --> 00:45:29.422
If you have questions for us, you can call 833-780-HOPE, which is 4673, I believe at the end, and we will take all questions about this show.

00:45:29.422 --> 00:45:43.405
If you have anything more directed that you want to reach out to her shorter term, you can leave a message at wwwkeephopelivepodcastcom and we can pick that up as well.

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Other than that, I want to say thank you so much for coming on the show.

00:48:28.681 --> 00:48:39.657
I've learned a lot from you, so thank you explaining the Lyme disease versus the mold and what's good to eat and I can still drink milk right.

00:48:44.389 --> 00:48:44.570
Oh my God.

00:48:44.570 --> 00:48:46.253
No, why do you keep saying no, I'm naming all the good stuff.

00:48:46.253 --> 00:48:49.742
No, that's not good stuff If there's a commercial about it.

00:48:49.742 --> 00:48:57.724
If there's a commercial about the food, don't eat it because that's government-based stuff.

00:48:57.724 --> 00:49:00.797
So milk unless it's raw, right.

00:49:00.797 --> 00:49:03.612
So here's a funny story Dairy cows.

00:49:03.711 --> 00:49:08.442
Back in the day, when we industrialized and we came into cities, we brought cows with us.

00:49:08.442 --> 00:49:11.760
Right, cows used to eat grass and we never used to have to make things.

00:49:11.760 --> 00:49:20.304
Well, we started feeding them spent grains from alcohol baking which made them sick, because cows actually aren't made to eat grains.

00:49:20.304 --> 00:49:23.108
Therefore stomachs are made to aren't made to eat grains.

00:49:23.108 --> 00:49:28.632
Therefore stomachs are made to break down grass, not grains.

00:49:28.632 --> 00:49:29.373
So now we've made them sick.

00:49:29.373 --> 00:49:38.079
So we had sick milk going out, making people sick and instead of treating the root of hey, let's feed cows what they're supposed to eat we started pasteurizing and homogenizing the milk.

00:49:38.079 --> 00:49:46.056
When you heat it up that high, it kills all the beneficial bacteria that is made for us to break it down.

00:49:46.056 --> 00:49:50.733
So now we're drinking a bunch of dead bacteria which is causing inflammation.

00:49:51.213 --> 00:49:53.699
Milk is one of the highest producers of mucose.

00:49:53.699 --> 00:50:03.733
There's also so many parts of pus per million that is allowed in milk, not to mention just how horrific the dairy industry actually treats those animals.

00:50:03.733 --> 00:50:05.677
So it's multi-layered.

00:50:05.677 --> 00:50:08.572
If you're going to drink milk, do it raw.

00:50:08.572 --> 00:50:10.155
Find a good raw source.

00:50:10.155 --> 00:50:14.311
Raw milk is actually one of the most nutrient-dense foods out there.

00:50:14.311 --> 00:50:16.014
It's absolutely brilliant.

00:50:16.014 --> 00:50:23.291
But unfortunately, if you've got an autoimmune disease, it mimics and it looks a lot like wheat.

00:50:23.291 --> 00:50:30.411
And if you've got like Hashimoto's, especially the thyroid tissue looks a lot like wheat.

00:50:30.411 --> 00:50:42.242
So now when you eat wheat, your body thinks that it's got this invader and it starts to attack your thyroid because your thyroid looks like wheat tissue and then dairy cross reacts like wheat.

00:50:42.590 --> 00:50:47.414
So, typically when I have people with autoimmune, that's dairy-free, gluten-free, right off the bat.

00:50:48.557 --> 00:50:51.777
I gotcha Okay, so stick to water.

00:50:53.152 --> 00:50:56.255
No, that's why no, no, water's great.

00:50:56.255 --> 00:50:57.233
Absolutely stick to water.

00:50:57.233 --> 00:50:58.617
But you can do other things as well.

00:50:58.617 --> 00:50:59.681
It doesn't have to be that boring.

00:50:59.681 --> 00:51:04.213
That's why I made the cooking series is because people they get so.

00:51:04.213 --> 00:51:13.695
They feel there's so much emotional stuff tied to food and a lot of people really struggle with with changing that part of their lifestyle.

00:51:13.695 --> 00:51:18.641
And people look at me and when I tell them I'm dairy-free, grain-free, corn-free, and they go, they go.

00:51:18.641 --> 00:51:19.963
Oh my god, what do you eat?

00:51:19.963 --> 00:51:22.152
And I'm like let me show you like I eat.

00:51:22.152 --> 00:51:23.335
Amazing.

00:51:23.335 --> 00:51:27.668
I had the most badass taco chicken tacos for dinner for lunch today.

00:51:27.668 --> 00:51:29.634
Oh yeah, they were amazing.

00:51:29.855 --> 00:51:37.733
I eat so good and uh, but it's just swapping different things out for different things and and and uh, educating on why, right?

00:51:37.733 --> 00:51:51.695
Instead Instead of just saying, like you know, understanding that you're drinking pus and that they treat the animals horrible and cows really aren't meant to eat grain and that's what makes them sick, and then we have to give them antibiotics and that's a huge process.

00:51:51.695 --> 00:51:56.454
It is, it is so, yeah, no, but no, whole real raw milk.

00:51:56.454 --> 00:52:03.851
Amazing Butter, raw from raw grass-fed cows, amazing Stuff that you get at the regular grocery store.

00:52:03.851 --> 00:52:06.096
Toxic, inflammatory foods.

00:52:06.878 --> 00:52:09.222
Okay, and no commercial foods.

00:52:10.250 --> 00:52:11.373
Yeah, processed, stuff.

00:52:11.373 --> 00:52:14.762
No, you really want a whole real food as much as possible.

00:52:14.762 --> 00:52:20.077
The longer the shelf life on something, the shorter it makes your life.

00:52:20.077 --> 00:52:23.061
So the longer the shelf life, shorter your life.

00:52:24.103 --> 00:52:40.250
Okay, okay, I am going to listen and I'm going to look at that long $600 question to see, and then I want to learn what I need to get to eat.

00:52:40.590 --> 00:52:44.320
Start off with that $67 course that I have on my website.

00:52:44.320 --> 00:52:53.454
That is the best place to start, most digestible, and then you have access to those videos at all times, because then you can be like oh, what did she say about that?

00:52:53.454 --> 00:52:55.536
Again, you can go back and rewatch it.

00:52:55.536 --> 00:53:06.313
And then, as things change because I'm always learning new things and as I learn something new, something that I had beliefs about, sometimes changes, you know, and I go in and I update, and I update, and I update.

00:53:06.313 --> 00:53:10.731
I'm not so, oh, okay, well, shit, I've been saying this wrong for the past couple of years.

00:53:10.731 --> 00:53:14.061
Oops, let's, you know, let's fix that, change it up, yeah.

00:53:14.670 --> 00:53:16.492
Nobody's got all the answers.

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If they did, they would be making kajillions of dollars and people still wouldn't be so sick.

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We wouldn't have carnivore versus vegan, versus paleo, versus all these things if one thing worked for everybody.

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So yeah, there's uh, but there are some like universal truths, with with dairy being really inflammatory, wheat being really inflammatory, you know, sadly, tuna being full of mercury, you know.

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But there are, there are.

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I still want my Tetrazzini.

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Well, and it might be, it might be that just the type that you get you know could be a different.

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You know whole cot, you know organic, you know something, something.

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They have stuff too that I've seen tested, tested low for mercury, you know.

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So there's, there's things that you can look for for sure.

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Yeah, I'm going to be more eyes wide open when I go to the grocery store now.

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So I even have a grocery store tour video in that I was going to like.

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Can you put this on an app?

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And you know this is what you buy at the grocery store.

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I'm not that technically sat, but but if anybody's listening that can help me build something like that, I would be more than happy to but yeah, there's a video where I take you around the store and show you uh, stay away from this aisle.

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Or, if you get this, here's an alternative.

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And instead of you know, you know, it'd be really cool lost and confused.

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do that video and, as you're passing by people throw comedy in there.

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Yeah, I have been picking, not picking, but playing with people a lot more these days.

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That's the one fun thing about comedy is that it's just made me more fun in general and bringing more joy to people around me.

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Everything's just serious.

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Yeah, it doesn't need to be serious in life.

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So I know you have a show coming up tonight and all your shows coming out.

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No, no more $25.

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You do it for 150.

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Give them an hour of comedy.

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Yeah, so well, it was so nice meeting you and until our next show guys remember it's wwwkeephopealivepodcastcom.

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Love and light.